Ephesians 5: 25
We as the Husband of the wife need to Love(Agape) our wives as Christ Love the Church, which he gave His Life for her. This done mean that we run ourselves to death, it simply mean give up this flesh the same way that Jesus did on the cross. We need to sacrifice our flesh on a daily basics.that we may become that head of the house hold not by paying bills but by Loving God which requires us to walk in His Commandments. John 14: 15 If you claim to love your wife you are commanded to love God & the only way we can complete this task is by being obedient to the Word Of God then we can become "The Head Of The Household"